Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
You like that "So I Married An Axe Murderer" quote!  So good!  One of my favorite films!

Anyway...

Let's rewind to our unborn baby's five month prenatal anatomy ultrasound.  My husband and I were so excited.  We were eager to learn the gender of our child and to see how he was growing.

Everything looked pretty good, barring an echogenic focus, which I'll discuss in a later post.  The technician did mention, however, that the baby was breech.  Not to worry, they assured us.  He had plenty of time to flip around.

The remaining four months of my pregnancy flew by, and before we knew it, we were in the final countdown.  I went to one of my last ultrasounds, where I was informed that the baby was still breech.  He must have been very comfortable where he was! We needed to schedule a c-section, which I will also address in a future post.

The baby was born and we were very happy to have a healthy little boy.

As time went on, we did start to notice that our son only really turned his head in one direction. Whenever he slept, he always faced the right side of his crib.  He was also developing a bit of a flat spot from always having his head in the same position.

We brought this up with the pediatrician and he said that our boy had torticollis, which is a tightening of a muscle on one side of the neck.  The doctor also told us that the flat spot was called plagiocephaly.  He said that physical therapy could help correct both things, and that the earlier invention was sought, the better.

Plagiocephaly is basically having an asymmetrical skull.  It is becoming more common in infants due to babies sleeping on their backs.  In our case, it was likely caused from his position in utero, as well as the torticollis.

We did bring our son to physical therapy every week and worked on exercises to improve his neck. We went to CCMC, which has been wonderful.  While his torticolis continued to improve, the plagiocephaly didn't.  The physical therapist recommended getting a helmet to correct the plagiocephaly.

I was not a huge fan of my son needing a helmet.  It made me feel like I had done something wrong. I also wasn't crazy about the idea of people staring at him when we were out in public, or people asking me why he had to wear a helmet.

Like I said, I wasn't crazy about the idea, but it was not about me.  It was about my son.  It was about fixing something that could affect his confidence later in life.  We were told that infants usually only need to wear the helmets for about 8 to 10 weeks anyway.  He will not remember wearing it at all.

My husband and I agreed that we should go ahead with getting a helmet.  We had to make this decision quickly because the younger a baby is, the easier it is to correct, as the bones in the skull are not yet fused.  Now we needed to decide where to go for the helmet.  We had two choices: Cranial Technologies or Hanger Clinic.

In the end, we chose to go with Cranial Technologies.  We chose CT for two big reasons.  The first reason was that this is all Cranial Technologies does.  They specialize in correcting plagiocephaly and have a good track record.  The second reason we chose them was because their version of the helmet (the Doc Band) was open at the top of the head.  We were getting into the warmer months and we thought our son would be a bit more comfortable in the Doc Band than the full helmet that Hanger offered.

The only downside of choosing Cranial Technologies was the fact that they only have two locations in the state, Madison and Cheshire.  Both locations were about an hour away from where we lived, so the weekly drives there were sometimes a pain.

Fast forward eight weeks, and our son was out of the helmet.  He is now the owner of a nice, round noggin!




When registering for a baby shower, the mother-to-be is bombarded with a million and one things that you just have to buy!  There are so many different strollers, bottles (Will you go glass or plastic?), bouncers, swings, co-sleepers, cribs, basinets, and the like, it is hard to decide what you will actually use and what people are saying you need.

I have come up with a list of ten things I am so glad I registered for. Some of these things won't be used with a newborn, but all are great to have.

10 Baby Items That Were Extremely Useful During the Baby's First Year

1. Dr. Brown's Bottle Sterilizer

This made cleaning bottles very quick and easy.  You just rinse off the bottles with soap and water before popping them in the sterilizer.  It takes about 15 minutes from beginning to end.  This is great, and absolutely worth registering for.

2. JJ Cole Original Infant Bundle Me (For Fall and Winter Babies)

Having had my son in Autumn, a warm carseat liner like this was great.  It's like a little woolen sleeping bag for the carseat or stroller.  I never had to worry about the baby being cold when I took him outside.

3. SwaddleMe

I never mastered the swaddle.  This was easy to use.

4. Snoofybee

This is AMAZING!  My son is now doing crocodile rolls while I'm trying to change his diaper.  He is also trying to grab at everything within arm's reach.  He's altogether pretty challenging to change at the moment.  This is a changing pad that folds up in such a way that his hands are kept up away from the diaper area.  You can also hang toys from it for distraction.  So great! Click here to see what I mean.

5. Amazon Echo

"Alexa, play the 'Putting The Baby To Bed' playlist." This has become indispensable to our bedtime routine.  We use the same playlist every night before bed.  This is so effective that our dog goes to lay down when she hears the music begin to play.  Not only is it great for music, the Echo can also be used as a hands free timer, which comes in handy when nursing.

6. Medela Freestyle Breast Pump

If you are breastfeeding, a pump is essential.  This particular pump works so well for me because it is compact.  I can take it anywhere easily. It needs to be charged, but the battery lasts for a while.  I probably charge once every week or so.

7. Nipple Shields

Nursing was not easy for me at first.  In fact, it was pretty rough.  It hurt while the baby nursed and I was sore after.  Lanolin cream helped a bit, but nipple shields kept me going.  After a while I didn't need them anymore.  The first month, however, they were clutch!

8. Arm's Reach Co-Sleeper

We used this until our son was about three months old.  It was easy to pick him up to nurse during the night.  Having had a c-section, my mobility was limited in the beginning, and this was so nice to have.

9. Graco Bumper Jumper

My son LOVES this!

10. Graco Pack 'N Play

The Pack 'N Play is three different items in one.  There is a bassinet, changing area, and the play yard.  We have had this set up as our downstairs changing station.

BONUS ITEM: Baby Merlin's Magic Sleepsuit

Baby Merlin's Magic Sleepsuit is great for when you are transitioning the baby out of the swaddle. It can be used as early as three months.  They look like 1950s snowsuits and provide a comfy cozy feeling for the baby.  When our son was transitioning to sleeping in his crib, this was very useful.

What items did you find to be essential during your baby's first year?



One thing I would like to do for my son is to instill in him a desire to help others, especially those less fortunate.  I figure the first way he will learn this is by watching his parents.  I will be trying to set an example for him in a few ways.  One way I will do this is by making blessing bags for the homeless.  

"What's a blessing bag?" you say. Well, let me tell you!

A blessing bag is a gift you can give a homeless person instead of money.  The blessing bag I recently made was a gallon ziplock bag filled with:

  •  travel size essential toiletries (deodorant, shampoo, conditioner, soap, toothpaste, and a toothbrush)
  • an applesauce cup
  • a granola bar 
  • some utensils

When I make these again, I'll probably add laundry detergent, a pair or socks, and enough quarters to do a load of laundry at the laundromat. 

This weekend, I was able to give away my first blessing bag.  While I was nervous about it at first, the gift was well received.  I'm looking forward to this becoming a habit that I can pass down to my son. 

If you are interested in making blessing bags, there are a ton of ideas for them on Pinterest.

Do you have certain activities to do with children that teach kindness and caring for those who are less fortunate? 
Since becoming a mother, I have wanted to write a blog for new moms, documenting my experiences so others wouldn’t copy my mistakes or so they could replicate what worked. 

My first month of motherhood could be summed up as “a haze.”  I don’t remember all of it.  I was a walking zombie. 

Everyone tries to prepare you for how little sleep you will get, but nothing, I mean NOTHING can prepare you.  Even reading this now, you’re probably thinking, “I can handle it.  I pulled plenty of all-nighters back in college.”  To this I say THINK AGAIN.  Nothing can prepare you. 

But, fear not!  It gets better!  Much better!  The first smiles and gurgles wake you up from that haze I mentioned before.  Suddenly, you realize what you already knew but were too tired to acknowledge- You have an amazing, happy, loving little human who adores you.  Every smile you send their way can make their day.  Every story you tell and book you read impacts them in a big way. 


I love being a mother!  I hope that you find my blog helpful, informative, funny at times, and I encourage you to comment and leave your own experiences.  I would love for this page to become a meeting of the minds of moms.